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Anonymous disrespect

Cedric writes: "What is up with this insistence of certain bloggers to require non-anonymous commenters? ... I actually even question the attitude in the first place. Tell people that they need to submit a real name and not an anonymous one and they will either stop posting comments on your blog or sign them John Smith. And what have you gained, really? Stop judging people on their identities to avoid addressing what they write. This is the Internet. Deal with it."

In my last Blog entry I delete a single unfinished phrase comment from "noone <noone@email.com>". This was the whole comment:

and your alternatives are better how?

My blog post starts with this paragraph:

For a while I've been getting more and more irritated by XML.
I don't like how I have to type in tags, how I have to escape text,
how everything is passed in as regular text without any typing ...
how unlike a regular programming language it is. XML might be great for
portable document formats, but for configuration it now feels totally
inappropriate.

So to me it's clear that person just scrolled down to the examples and compared brackets without taking the trouble of reading anything. Since the question was not very thought out to begin with and indicated clearly that the person hadn't stopped to think 2 minutes about what I was trying to bring accross in my blog post, I decided to delete it since it was clearly from someone that just likes to comment without taking much effort and not even the effort of leaving a name.

Now why don't I like anonymous comments, why did I decide to delete them? Simple, I just don't like it. It's similar to the fact that I don't like talking with someone that doesn't wash and stinks.

Insisting on being anonymous also brings another feeling accross: disrespect. It's like on IRC, you know everybody by their nickname. Sure anybody could use a fake one, but I hardly talk to all the random nicks that message me in private. When I have someone on the phone, I don't start a conversation without asking who he is, the guy could be lying too. When I receive emails, the addresses could be spoofed too. If you blatently refuse to tell who you are, why the hell should I take the trouble of starting a conversation with you. It's not about the fact that you can disguise yourself as anyone else, since that's possible everywhere. Hell, someone could even get surgery and a wig and look like a good friend in real life.

If you don't take the trouble of giving your name, it's like reading a blurp that's extracted out of nowhere without any context and it's disrespectful. As with emails, I keep the right of deleting emails from anybody without replying, I keep the right of deciding what goes on my personal pages and what not. If you don't like that, go post your crap elsewhere, I don't like you either.

posted by Geert Bevin in Blogging on Jul 23, 2004 8:39 AM : 8 comments [permalink]
 

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Re: Anonymous disrespect

You are so totally right. People should use their own names, or failing that, their pornstar names.

Re: Anonymous disrespect

Now *that* was funny.

Re: Anonymous disrespect

To Mr. Pornstar, you can continue your fun if you want, I'll just continue deleting until I don't see any kind of arrogance. It's very simple with MT-Blacklist, just one click. Have fun.

Re: Anonymous disrespect

100% right.

Re: Anonymous disrespect

You know, I really don't care. I bring up issues with what you say and you don't want to deal with them. You haven't convinced me that your argument is any good. I wanted you to convince me, but since you can't do that, so be it. It's your blog.

Have a nice day

Re: Anonymous disrespect

I understand that being spammed is no fun, and I agree that since this is your blog, you can do anything you want. If anonymous posts annoy you, you're completely entitled to delete them. In fact, it's generious of you to state your policy in advance.

That said, I don't agree with your analogy that a blog is like a phonecall. I think this medium favors content over person, and so I think the content of a message is more important than the origin.

Of course, there are exceptions, such as the astroturfing fiasco over at TSS.

Also, I don't think there's any reason for requiring the email address to be required.

Re: Anonymous disrespect

I completely agree with your reasoning Geert. Not only are anonymous posting disrespectful they're useless as far as I'm concerned. We've all seen the level that AC posters on /. sink to at times.

This is one reason why I am still ambivalent in enabling comments on my own blog. My email address is plastered on my website - interested parties are always welcome to contact me directly. Any response unworthy for the bit bucket automatically gets consideration for mention in the actual blog.

And as this doesn't seem to be commented often nearly enough ;):

Thanks for taking the time to write your blog, I have personally take pleasure in reading your well written commentary and technical discussions.

Re: Anonymous disrespect

I couldnt agree more

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